A very phenomenal experience in some teenagers life is when they start getting into fights. Me for example , did not have much trouble growing up till about 14-15 years . Getting into a fight as a little kid and as a teen is a lot different .
How so ? well for one kids don't get serious ,and they dont get the taste for it , unless you are really big and a bully. But when you fight in your teenage ,you have those testosterone high levels that just take the driving seat . Once you get in a fight you just go on a street brawl spree .This definetly can get a little dangerous ..first time is accidental , you feel the adrenaline ,the rush ..if you dont get your ass kicked much and dont regret it ..you just become a little reckless .i had my first almost fight in 9th grade and then alot more for one more year and then it was ok .I have no doubt in my mind that fighting is an addiction for those who have been fighting.
Now this doesn't mean i am glorifying this behaviour...its really bad and leads you to bad company maybe gangs if one lives in such a neighbourhood and your life just takes a not so good course.
Parents need to be aware if this is happening with their kids ....keep them close and do advice your kids ...they may not like it but they will realize that you guys were right at some point .
Raising a good person is pretty much the best service you can do to the world.... #goodluck
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